Welcome!

Hi everyone!

Hope that you found me here from my prior blog. I told some of you that I was moving here and am hoping that all of my ALI (Adoption, Loss and Infertility) friends will find there way here. Perfect timing with ICLW starting on the 21st! I will leave my old blog up for a while, but may eventually remove it... we'll see.

I made the move over to an 'incognito' blog for two reasons (you can read a bit about it on the last post of my prior blog)

1) Certain circumstances made me less comfortable being brutally honest, which I need and deserve to be on my blog. Because of this, I decided to go underground from certain readers. Nothing earth-shattering, but mostly just self preservation. First and foremost, this is a place for me to release my emotions of this fertility journey and if I can't do that on my blog, where can i, right?

2) If we choose to go down the donor egg or adoption trail if this final FET with our own genetics fails, it will allow me and Tidy (formally known as B) a private space to make these decisions without being judged by people IRL. Not that our family and friends are judgmental, in fact they have been nothing but mostly supportive. But there's always room for misunderstandings and assumptions. And right now, I don't need that.

So, please let me know you have found me here by either following me or leaving me a comment.

Cheers to a new beginning!

Oh, and for my ICLW folks finding me here for the first time, you can find my story above in the tabs (TTC Timeline... ). Currently I'm on BCPs for my final FET with my genetics.... SCARY!