tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post8836473539616242434..comments2023-04-12T05:47:59.964-05:00Comments on Tippy & Tidy's Tumultuous Trip to (Twin) Toddlers: Anger is from Unfairness... duh!Tippyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00690925482075138163noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-20746734636890025702011-08-22T13:32:03.743-05:002011-08-22T13:32:03.743-05:00Therapy is awesome. I know I'm biased, but wh...Therapy is awesome. I know I'm biased, but what can I say? ;-) Sooooo glad that you got a lot out of that session....ah-ha moments rock. And YAY for Dotty starting to stim! Woo-hoo!!!<br /><br />I have one silly donor egg question: Do you get to keep all of her eggs? I'm thinking if she has quite a few healthy ones, you'll have plenty left for freezing. Right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-26481261565233113612011-08-21T23:08:34.691-05:002011-08-21T23:08:34.691-05:00Hi from ICLW...could so relate to this post, I hav...Hi from ICLW...could so relate to this post, I have the same anger. Also had a strange dream about my (also mentally ill) father this week...anger and control issues abound! Can't wait to see what happens with Dotty! Good luck! xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-78965894952564199282011-08-21T19:34:27.395-05:002011-08-21T19:34:27.395-05:00Hey! I'm a new reader from ICLW August.
I rea...Hey! I'm a new reader from ICLW August.<br />I really enjoyed reading this since I too have dreams where I'm upset with other people. It is usually family and anytime I have to explain my side, no one is listening to me and I get so frustrated. Maybe I need to work on making myself heard in real life.<br />It sounds like you have a good therapist and it is great that it is doing you so much good! Hope you continue growing and learning about yourself! :)The Reinertshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06319378734681756665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-67397437274953488302011-08-21T18:27:45.329-05:002011-08-21T18:27:45.329-05:00Hi there - new reader from ICLW August.
I think...Hi there - new reader from ICLW August. <br /><br />I think anger is a perfectly acceptable emotion, so long as you (not you specifically, but people in general) are "safe" with their anger. (My mom is a therapist IRL and sometimes her psychotherapy ramblings come out in my everday speech ... sorry!) :)<br /><br />Anyways, waiting for an update on Dotty! Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-24398035573518840902011-08-21T15:08:36.413-05:002011-08-21T15:08:36.413-05:00Such a good point! I have a real problem with want...Such a good point! I have a real problem with wanting the world to be fair, and though I've seen again and again (especially with IF) that it isn't, I still get really upset at th unfairness! I don't know how to become more zen about it, but I appreciate the insight that its natural for anger to come from this sense of unfairness. <br /><br />Also, always excited to find other DE blogs--I'm currently pregnant thanks to donor eggs from my bff! Wishing you much luck!Willowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05319707316191000140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-87143661144942908312011-08-20T03:00:21.341-05:002011-08-20T03:00:21.341-05:00Woohoo for a great an insightful session with yout...Woohoo for a great an insightful session with yout therapist! Sounds like you had some ah-ha moments with her. It TOTALLY makes sense that you would often react strongly to "unfairness" ESPECIALLY with IF. Unfairness is the crux of IF for sure! and YAY for Dotty getting started. I really hope all goes smoothly with her and you're up and running. yahoo!!Chermhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05936954291111191011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-31627449890018412022011-08-19T20:40:19.534-05:002011-08-19T20:40:19.534-05:00this is such great insights. Take this for what i...this is such great insights. Take this for what its worth, (I am a therapist but clearly do not pretend to be your therapist at all) I sometimes think that we are able to get mad those that we have the safest, most secure relationships. I am not sure if this extends to dreams too, but perhaps so. You may feel with these 2 you are able to let it out more without consequences like abandonment, which is often what is feared when we let out our anger. Just a thought. Take it for what its worth (or not worth for that matter).<br />on another note, so glad Dotty is getting started!! Fingers and toes are crossed.cdghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13174907373129154516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-76187196985594649602011-08-19T19:01:00.049-05:002011-08-19T19:01:00.049-05:00I wonder if Jungian psychotherapists would say you...I wonder if Jungian psychotherapists would say your dreams have something to do with your anima/animus. I don't know much about this, just what I've learned from the university of Wikipedia.KVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10155010780861914600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-72822049420950316332011-08-19T16:46:16.166-05:002011-08-19T16:46:16.166-05:00Finding a therapist is a great thing, especially w...Finding a therapist is a great thing, especially when you click and when you're challenged. A definite opportunity for growth.<br />It sounds like you had to take on a lot as a child, I am sorry. Hoping you continue to sort through your feelings and figure out more about the anger.Gurleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05562588754936930732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-56156963027775848952011-08-19T15:17:55.729-05:002011-08-19T15:17:55.729-05:00hello
I'm a new reader and just wanted to say ...hello<br />I'm a new reader and just wanted to say I really liked this post, thank you for sharing :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com