tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post6504163939428411827..comments2023-04-12T05:47:59.964-05:00Comments on Tippy & Tidy's Tumultuous Trip to (Twin) Toddlers: A Mother's Day WishTippyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00690925482075138163noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-81065313478981042922011-05-16T05:16:51.372-05:002011-05-16T05:16:51.372-05:00Whatever else that it does, infertility complicate...Whatever else that it does, infertility complicates our relationship with our family as well.<br /><br />I am so sorry that your Mom is not offering you the empathy that she should.St Elsewherehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08074672268757885766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-27798948682999378632011-05-12T09:07:56.658-05:002011-05-12T09:07:56.658-05:00Thinking of you!!! xoxoxThinking of you!!! xoxoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-19746941615333561552011-05-10T21:18:02.045-05:002011-05-10T21:18:02.045-05:00I felt this same way too..just wishing someone wou...I felt this same way too..just wishing someone would recognize how hard this day was for me. One of my friends at work said to me as we were leaving work on Friday, "Have a great weekend". Reeally?!?!? (this friend knows everything I've been through) How could she be so insensitive? Yeah, I'm going to have a great weekend thinking about how I'm still not a mother ...and about the baby I lost. UGH! <br />Hang in there honey. Sending love!LChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13054802076828038058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-58813858602538387462011-05-10T20:42:50.788-05:002011-05-10T20:42:50.788-05:00It's so hard being stuck between a rock and a ...It's so hard being stuck between a rock and a vulnerable place. Not wanting judgment yet not wanting to ask for what you need. :-/ I so wish there was an easier answer. xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-25450072052912515172011-05-10T20:20:20.541-05:002011-05-10T20:20:20.541-05:00I was thinking of you on Sunday, Tippy, and so man...I was thinking of you on Sunday, Tippy, and so many other women who aren't yet but will be mothers someday.Whipped Cream & Kittenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11883933303142774141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-90923658493128188762011-05-09T23:45:16.735-05:002011-05-09T23:45:16.735-05:00I'm so sorry to hear this. Having those that a...I'm so sorry to hear this. Having those that are close to us not understand what we're going through and not being supportive of us makes this so much harder. <br /><br />We can only learn from others' mistakes. We'll know what not to do when a loved one needs us in a similar situation.Cyndihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17686776931618629603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-61490866459940098422011-05-09T20:19:17.251-05:002011-05-09T20:19:17.251-05:00So sorry you're not getting that empathy from ...So sorry you're not getting that empathy from your own mother. I hope she will one day understand your needs and respect them. Huge hugs! BTW, I just featured your blog tonight!Krissihttp://stressfreeinfertilityblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-13475276716279054842011-05-09T18:40:53.645-05:002011-05-09T18:40:53.645-05:00I've learned through this IF journey that peop...I've learned through this IF journey that people can't always be what we want them to be. And that really sucks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-4535105244750988122011-05-09T16:54:10.946-05:002011-05-09T16:54:10.946-05:00FWIW, I'm thinking of you, and so are so many ...FWIW, I'm thinking of you, and so are so many others who are wanting and wishing and grieving on Mother's Day and every day. Big hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-48803913163182408162011-05-08T23:10:54.608-05:002011-05-08T23:10:54.608-05:00Hi,
Just seeing you blog for the first time...so s...Hi,<br />Just seeing you blog for the first time...so sorry for what you're going through. I had 2 chemical pregnancies last year and it's so very hard. Hugs and I'm sorry you have to deal with Mother's Day AND not getting what you need from your own mother. <br />xoxoKristenhttp://www.buckupbuttercup.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-48985624475778299642011-05-08T21:17:00.086-05:002011-05-08T21:17:00.086-05:00I'm sorry Tippy. Today's a hard day for u...I'm sorry Tippy. Today's a hard day for us IF's. Hugs for you.<br /><br />Joey<br />http://thechildlessmom.blogspot.comJoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06428717481523132392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-28058070600353501802011-05-08T17:32:35.819-05:002011-05-08T17:32:35.819-05:00I understand this completely Tippy... I thought th...I understand this completely Tippy... I thought the same thing (so we can be selfish together!!) and only 1 friend texted me today saying next year we will have the boys waiting on us together. <br />I am sorry your mom is not supportive. Being raised catholic I can understand what you mean. I am lucky that despite our religion, my family has been nothing but supportive. God has given these doctors the knowledge to make us babies in a petri-dish first, then be placed in our wombs. One day, somehow, we will be the mothers we are meant to be. Until that day comes, I will be thinking about you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-65211451962588533592011-05-08T17:14:21.924-05:002011-05-08T17:14:21.924-05:00*hugs**hugs*Marissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335092755332310967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-43586236726031263382011-05-08T17:01:25.160-05:002011-05-08T17:01:25.160-05:00I was thinking of you. Its hard when people have c...I was thinking of you. Its hard when people have complicated relationships with their parents. I know someday you WILL have that little one.... I know it. And when you do, you will know to give them a little more TLC that you know they will need at times, and hopefully it will help you fill that little hole of longing that your mom hasn't been able to fulfill for you. (hugs!)Freyamaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12049626477723783722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-27186903652188910382011-05-08T16:58:28.586-05:002011-05-08T16:58:28.586-05:00I am so sorry sweetie. I wish that your mother co...I am so sorry sweetie. I wish that your mother could be there for you in more of a real way. Such a giant hole that must leave. I am glad that you are surrounded by a few sensitive friends and family memebers.<br />sending lots of love to you and holding you in my thoughts today.cdghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13174907373129154516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5843113890461160416.post-52587596610856227352011-05-08T16:36:18.787-05:002011-05-08T16:36:18.787-05:00So heartbreaking. I'm so very sorry that you h...So heartbreaking. I'm so very sorry that you have such a painful relationship with your mother. Sending out love and thoughts for you today. You've been through so much...Baby Hopeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12247685343284672194noreply@blogger.com